A job that changed me: After years of being a marriage celebrant, I became uneasy with the institution

My favourite part was sitting with couples, talking about their lives and why they wanted to marry.

But I’m equally happy to have left it behind Read more in this series here I was in my mid-20s in the mid-2000s when I became a professional yapper.

I’d had to bow out of a career in Auslan interpreting due to injury, but could still talk under wet concrete.

Studying to become a civil marriage celebrant felt logical – I wanted to know what love was, and I knew it could show me.

Being appointed by the Attorney-General’s Department involved a Certificate III and rigorous application process.

I had to prove I was “of good standing” and “believed in the definition of marriage”.

As a card-carrying homosexual, I wrote about my belief in all kinds of love, including marriage.

It couldn’t take that long, I thought, for us to be recognised as having committed partnerships.

Waiting a long, loathsome decade proved me wrong.

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