Can you spend your way out of loneliness?

Over the years, Julianne Holt-Lunstad has fielded many requests from startups looking for her help.

These entrepreneurs came to the Brigham Young University professor with the well-meaning goal of “solving” loneliness; they believed their app or company could help consumers build genuine connections, and wanted Holt-Lunstad’s opinion on this feature or that business tactic.

Across the pond, University College London professor Noreena Hertz was getting the same calls.

They wanted her to join their boards, to advise them, to give their proof of concept a stamp of approval.

“Of the many startups who’ve approached me, and it’s probably about 50 or 60 in the space,” Hertz told Vox, “there hasn’t been one where I felt convinced by their business model.” That CEOs and founders were clamoring to pick the brains of these two women is entirely predictable — their work may have been the basis on which these startups were founded.

Holt-Lunstad is among the most cited academics who study loneliness and social connection.

The commonly repeated stat that loneliness is equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day ? That came from her research.

She was the lead science editor on the Surgeon General’s 2023 advisory on loneliness and isolation.

As for Hertz, in her 2020 book The Lonely Century: How to Restore Human Connection in a World That’s Pulling Apart , she coined the phrase “loneliness economy,” at the time, a fledgling market of niche services, like friends for rent and professional cuddling .

In the years since Hertz gave it a name, the loneliness economy has only ballooned.

As public attention to loneliness has mounted — despite the fact that research doesn’t consistently show whether a loneliness epidemic exists in the first place — the market stepped in to offer solutions.

No longer are the lonely limited to joining a running club, they can now rent friends and cuddlers.

They can hire a coach to help vanquish loneliness and build a community. (One charges $3,000 for a three-month program.) They can attend a $1,000 weekend-long summer camp to make friends (with the option to pay in installments via Klarna).

They can buy a $250 pendant that listens to their every word and can communicate back via voice or text .