My husband and I spend 3 months at a time living abroad with only carry-ons. I'm surprised by how little I really need.

As much as I enjoy shopping and collecting, travel has helped me realize what's really important.

Mar Yvette Living abroad with only what fits in a carry-on has changed my definition of "enough." I no longer buy "just in case" stuff that rarely gets used, and I've found joy in a simple wardrobe .

Ironically, the more I appreciate the things we own, the less attached I've become to them.

I'll admit it: I love shopping and the thrill of getting something new.

But ever since my husband and I started doing extended stays in Paris and other cities throughout Europe, I've surprised myself with how little I actually need.

We never check luggage because it's such a hassle, so whenever we get home after living out of carry-on suitcases for three months, I'll look around our apartment, open my closet, and think, "Wow, I forgot about most of this stuff." Even though I'm a lifelong declutterer and keep our space tidy and organized, I've come to realize that getting by with only what fits in a carry-on has changed my definition of "enough." Having fewer clothes makes getting dressed easier A few cozy turtlenecks have gotten me through most seasons in Europe and in the States.

Mar Yvette It's kind of ironic that going to Paris, the fashion capital of the world , is where I've ended up with the smallest wardrobe.

But as it turns out, having fewer options saves me a lot of mental energy and has made me more creative and intentional about what I wear.

I pack versatile pieces that work together so I can mix and match, rewear the same few pairs of pants, and do laundry every week.

Even winter trips , when I have to pack bulkier clothes, have proven that I can get by with much less than I ever thought possible.

I have dozens of sweaters at home since I'm a bit of a collector, but all I really need are just a few Quince cashmere fisherman turtlenecks.

I love clothes, but I don't mind having fewer options whenever I travel.

Mar Yvette I also love jewelry, hats, and sunglasses, and usually have multiple options based on my mood.

But being away for months at a time has made me realize that I'm perfectly fine with having just a few accessories to rotate through.